52 Films by Women Vol 8. 49. Familiar Touch (Director: Sarah Friedland)

Pictured : Ruth Goldman ( Kathleen Chalfant ) adjusts to life in an assisted living facility in writer-director Sarah Friedland's film, ' Familiar Touch '. Still courtesy of Venice Film Festival. In the UK there is legislation going through Parliament to allow for assisted dying, to be utilised when quality of life is diminished through ill health. As you watch Familiar Touch , writer-director Sarah Friedland ’s depiction of an elderly woman, Ruth Goldman ( Kathleen Chalfant , magnetic) transferred to an assisted living facility – don’t call it a community because people don’t really mix – you think, surely the scope for assisted dying should be wider. At what point should life no longer be prolonged? Surely, when it is no longer your own, when you exercise no agency, when you are administered to rather than consciously exercise choice. On her first morning in the facility, Ruth asks, ‘may I see the menu?’ ‘It doesn’t work like that,’ she is told. But it really should. The...